Remember that time I took a super cute selfie? Oh wait, that’s all the time.
the reason why so many people prefer older men isnt because we have some sort of kink but because we know young teenage boys are a complete fucking disaster that can only be salvaged by the sands of time
i keep seeing this post on my dash and I’ve been trying to ignore it, but are all the twentysomethings I follow ignoring that this was written by a teenager about adult men? To the teenagers, i’m not trying to sound like a big sister here, but any adult male/older man who would even CONSIDER dating a teenager is not only a complete disaster, but a fucking predator.
The good news is that dating DOES get easier when you’re past your teenage years and it is safe to fantasize about hot older celebrities.
But I am begging my peers not to normalize this shit and not to let teens, people we should be looking out for, think that older men dating minors is acceptable.
This notion that older men are somehow more mature and refined falls apart right fucking quick as you enter adulthood. You realize quickly that a lot of single men in their 30s/40s are, by and large, overgrown teenagers with inferiority complexes and oftentimes with some ugly skeletons in their closet to tow. You do not need that in your life as a young woman who is already dealing with the challenges of adulthood. Period.
Anyway, it’s not the age difference that is the problem a lot of the times—it’s the younger woman being fooled into thinking that age = experience/maturity/etc. Older men know this equation. They exploit it on the regular and get away with it because there is a damn near infinite supply of young naive women who don’t know it yet.
If you’re a teenage girl who dates men and you are dating men 5+ years older than you, reconsider and give these dudes a good look. Same applies if you’re under 30 and dating dudes 10+ years older than you.
And to be clear, there most certainly are some kind loving older dudes out there who will treat you well but they are a minority and they’re probably cheating on their wives anyway. The odds are overwhelming against you.
At 24 I dated someone born in 1969 (I think he might have been older now that I think about it). At 25 I was involved off and on for years with someone born in 1972. I’ve briefly dated/talked to/hooked up with other men born in the late 60s/early to mid 70s (I was born in 1985). Their maturity,sophistication, and level of care/kindness/worldliness/whatever was beyond low. The whole cult of older men on tumblr is ridic. stop reading Lolita…
Kelly gets involved in the most uncomfortable, unsexy, coked out threesome that ever existed.
Cocaine Kelly - my forgotten 90s band.
This accidental negative print from microfilm that I made looks like a gorgeous coldwave album cover, no?
I’ve already broken yesterday’s promise. Is there a support group for book addicts?
I spent 40 bucks on books today :(